One of the most beautiful things about the gay community is its diversity in style, personality, and yes, bodies. Here are just a few examples of celebrated body types:

Let’s face it: bottoming can feel like a mystery if you’re new to it — or even if you’ve done it before but didn’t exactly enjoy the experience. Whether you're just curious, ready to try it for the first time, or looking to get more comfortable, this guide is here to demystify gay bottoming with facts, advice, and zero judgment.

Let’s be real — in queer sex, questions about what’s safe, pleasurable, and healthy are normal. One that comes up often (and maybe even during pillow talk) is:“Is it safe or healthy to swallow cum?”

Gay saunas have long held a unique place in LGBTQ+ culture — as sites of sexual exploration, social connection, and in some cases, refuge. While to outsiders they may seem mysterious or even taboo, gay saunas are multifaceted spaces that continue to evolve with changing attitudes toward sex, privacy, and health.

Bareback sex — condomless anal sex — is a topic that stirs strong opinions within the gay community and beyond. For some, it’s an expression of intimacy, trust, or personal freedom. For others, it raises concerns about health risks and HIV transmission. Regardless of where you stand, one thing is clear: gay men deserve honest, stigma-free information to make empowered decisions about their sexual health.

When it comes to sexual health, knowledge is power. Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM) are at higher risk for certain sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia. But with the right information and habits, it's entirely possible to enjoy a healthy sex life while minimizing your risk. Here's how.

For decades, the jockstrap was seen strictly as athletic gear — something worn on the football field or in the locker room. But in recent years, jockstraps have found a new home in the wardrobes of many gay men, not just as a fetish or fashion statement, but as genuinely comfortable underwear.

Honey, the sun is out, the buns are out, and so are we.Whether you’re a first-timer or a seasoned beach babe, stepping onto a gay nudist beach is a full-body YES to freedom, confidence, and community. But before you drop those trunks and let the breeze kiss places it’s never kissed before, let’s get real about how to strut, soak, and socialize without being that guy.

At Staydar, we proudly offer a clothing-optional environment for men who want to relax, connect, and feel free in their own skin. But if you're new to the idea, you might wonder — what exactly does "clothing optional" mean?