The Long, Complicated History of Auto-Fellatio

Auto-fellatio, the act of a person stimulating their own penis with their mouth, has existed at the fringe of human sexuality for centuries. While rarely discussed openly, it appears in ancient art, psychoanalytic literature, and niche anatomical discussions. Its history is as complicated as the physical act itself and it reveals fascinating intersections of myth, taboo, and human curiosity.

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Choosing the Right Holiday Stay: Why Your Needs Should Lead the Way

Planning a holiday is always exciting flights are booked, destinations are pinned, and the countdown begins. But one crucial detail that often doesn't get the attention it deserves is choosing the right place to stay. Your accommodation can make or break your travel experience, and what works for one traveller may not suit another. That’s why picking a stay that matches your specific needs is essential.

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Discover the Hidden Practices of the Azande Tribe: Where Same-Sex Bonds Once Defined Manhood

When we think of African cultures, we often envision ancient rituals, warrior traditions, and vibrant communal life. What’s often overlooked—or deliberately erased—is the diversity of sexual and gender practices that existed long before colonial influence. One fascinating example is the Azande people of Central Africa (present-day Democratic Republic of Congo, South Sudan, and the Central African Republic), whose historical warrior culture included openly accepted same-sex relationships between men.

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Inside the World of Gay Saunas: Culture, Sex, and Community

Gay saunas have long held a unique place in LGBTQ+ culture — as sites of sexual exploration, social connection, and in some cases, refuge. While to outsiders they may seem mysterious or even taboo, gay saunas are multifaceted spaces that continue to evolve with changing attitudes toward sex, privacy, and health.

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Bareback Sex in the Gay Community: Understanding the Risks, Realities, and Harm Reduction

Bareback sex — condomless anal sex — is a topic that stirs strong opinions within the gay community and beyond. For some, it’s an expression of intimacy, trust, or personal freedom. For others, it raises concerns about health risks and HIV transmission. Regardless of where you stand, one thing is clear: gay men deserve honest, stigma-free information to make empowered decisions about their sexual health.

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Protecting Your Health: A Guide to Preventing STIs for Gay Men

When it comes to sexual health, knowledge is power. Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM) are at higher risk for certain sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia. But with the right information and habits, it's entirely possible to enjoy a healthy sex life while minimizing your risk. Here's how.

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